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Welcome to the Midlife Candor Blog. This space is created specifically for you—the midlife woman who has built a life caring for everyone else while quietly setting aside her own dreams and needs. You've earned the right to prioritize yourself without guilt.

What You'll Find Here

Candid stories, transformative mindset shifts, and practical strategies written to help you navigate the unexpected twists of life.

  • Gentle wisdom for reconnecting with your authentic feelings and needs after years of living on autopilot

  • Practical guidance for establishing boundaries that honor your energy and time—without alienating those you love

  • Useful practices that help you move from depletion to genuine vitality, one small step at a time

  • Real stories from someone who's navigated this exact midlife transition and emerged more vibrant, purposeful, and alive

Are You In Alignment With What You Want In Life?
Judy Davis Judy Davis

Are You In Alignment With What You Want In Life?

Recently, when I was living a "less than perfect" period in my life, I began to question what this whole alignment thing was all about. I wanted to understand how being in alignment could actually help me get what I wanted out of life, and more importantly how to stay there once I figured it out. In short, I wanted to quit the roller coaster, and get the information I needed to create my ideal life.

Have you ever felt the same?

More and more we are hearing how important it is to be in alignment with what we want in our lives. There are books, movies and techniques designed to help us reach our goals and create the life we desire. The gurus talk about getting aligned with our intentions.

But what does that even mean?

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You can calm the Chaos
Judy Davis Judy Davis

You can calm the Chaos

As a mental wellness mentor and caregiver to a wounded warrior I get chaos and stress.

When you are caring for someone you are always on, putting out fires and anticipating when the next challenge will present itself. It’s as if you are standing on pins and needles just trying to get through the day.

This constant state of fight or flight was the fuel for my anxiety and stress.

I couldn’t sleep, my shoulders were always so tight, I never felt like I could relax. Stress will do that to you.

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