Hi, I’m Judy Davis

Motivational Speaker • Author • Midlife Truth-Teller and Sometimes I Paint

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"Stop saying 'I'm fine' when you're not. Let's talk truth instead."

My Story Isn't Pretty, But It's Real

I see you. I see you juggling everyone else's needs while your own dreams collect dust. I see you saying "I'm fine" when you're anything but fine. And, it's time we change that conversation.

My journey began like so many others—perfecting the art of holding everything together while quietly falling apart inside. As a military spouse, I mastered the "I'm fine" response even when my world was crumbling. Sound familiar?

Then everything changed in an instant. My husband Geoff was severely injured in combat—above-knee amputation, traumatic brain injury, and injuries that forced us to confront a new reality where "I'm fine" wasn't just a lie, it was impossible.

That crisis became my wake-up call. While rebuilding our lives from the ground up, I discovered something powerful: midlife isn't about settling—it's about rising.

Through our journey of rebuilding, I found my calling: helping other women navigate their own times of crisis, transition, and transformation. I learned that life's most difficult challenges can become our greatest catalysts for growth—if we're willing to stop pretending everything is fine and start getting real about what we need.

What Makes Me Different

Forget the fluff and feel-good platitudes. I bring Midlife Candor—raw, honest conversations about the messy middle of life that nobody talks about. No toxic positivity. No "just think positive" garbage. Just honest conversation about navigating midlife transitions, rediscovering your identity, and finally—FINALLY—putting yourself first without apologizing for it.

Speaking & Training Experience

  • 45+ Military Spouse events nationwide

  • Corporate keynotes and workshops

  • Universities including Texas Tech & University of Michigan

  • Organizations like USAA, Dove and San Antonio Chamber of Commerce

  • Emotional resilience and stress management training

  • Holistic wellness practices and creative self-expression workshops

Published Author & Mental Health Advocate

  • "Right Side Up: Find Your Way When Military Life Turns You Upside Down"

  • "Warning Signs: Is Your Teen at Risk for Depression, Addiction and Suicide"

  • Featured in multiple publications and media outlets

  • Mental health advocacy and suicide prevention work

Recognition & Impact

  • Dove Real Beauty Award recipient

  • Co-founder of DASIUM (depression, addiction, and suicide prevention for teens and young adults)

  • Fort Carson Military Spouse of the Year

  • Mental health mentor and resilience trainer

  • Thousands of lives impacted through speaking engagements and programs

My Midlife Candor Promise

Whether you're dealing with empty nest syndrome, career transitions, relationship changes, or simply feeling lost in the middle of your own life, I'll meet you exactly where you are with practical strategies and permission to prioritize your own happiness.

My approach combines:

  • Emotional resilience training that actually works in real life

  • Stress management techniques designed for overwhelmed women

  • Practical strategies you can implement today, not someday

  • Guilt-free permission to prioritize yourself

  • Truth-telling that cuts through the "I should be grateful" nonsense

My family motto guides everything I do: "Life happens, live creative." Real transformation happens when we stop merely surviving and start intentionally creating the life we desire.

Perfect for Organizations Seeking Authentic Impact

Looking for a speaker who won't just inspire but will actually equip your audience with tools they'll use? I specialize in:

  • Corporate events for midlife professional women

  • Military spouse conferences and family readiness groups

  • Women's retreats and empowerment events

  • Healthcare organizations serving women 40+

  • Community groups focused on personal development

My keynotes leave attendees with actionable strategies, not just warm feelings that fade by Tuesday.

Ready to Move Beyond "I'm Fine"?

For Midlife Women: Join the Midlife Candor community where we're rewriting the rules about what's possible after 40. Because you've earned the right to prioritize yourself without guilt.

For Event Planners: Let's create an experience that genuinely transforms your audience with practical tools and honest conversation about what midlife transformation really looks like.

The extraordinary life you deserve is waiting. Let's take that first step together.

Connect with me at info @DavisInspired.com • Book speaking engagements • Join the Midlife Candor movement

Highlights of Judy Davis motivational speaker at Dove, USAA and military spouse events

A snapshot of some of the places I have had the privilege to be featured:

  • Presenter for the Anxiety Commander - 3 Pillars of Mental Wellness For Real Anxiety Relief

  • Guest on the Wise Health For Women podcast

  • Guest on the Mighty Parenting Podcast (Depression, Addiction and Suicide a Story of Hope)

  • Guest on the Joyce Beuford Empowers Podcast (How to Handle Life’s Stressors)

  • Master of Ceremonies for Milspousefest Virtual “Dreams Become Reality - Mental Wellness” event

  • Keynote Speaker at San Antonio Chamber of Commerce Military Spouse Appreciation Day

  • Repeat Guest of Army Wife Talk Radio

  • Guest of the Daily Dabble Podcast

  • Keynote speaker for the Bradon Bayless Foundation Annual Fundraiser

  • Featured graduation speaker for the Combat Medic graduation ceremony

  • Keynote speaker for over 25 Milspousefest events

  • Recipient of the Dove Real Beauty Award

  • Keynote Speaker at 3rd Annual Dove Real Beauty “Women of the Military” Luncheon 

  • Guest on the Bruce and Blanquita Show on NoBull Radio  Listen

  • Keynote Speaker at University of Michigan. Delivered Warning Signs: Are You or A Friend At Risk?  hosted by Delta Gamma at their Ethics & Values Event

  • Featured presenter at Oakland Schools for suicide prevention.

  • Featured Speaker for Military Spouse Wellness Summit: Invest in Yourself

  • Keynote Speaker at Camp Lejeune Wounded Warrior Family Programs

  • Featured presenter at USAA DigitalMilEx

  • Keynote Speaker at Texas Tech University Suicide Prevention Week Student Event “Are You or A Friend at Risk”

  • Keynote Speaker at Texas Tech University Suicide Prevention Week Faculty Seminar “Warning Signs of a Student at Risk”

  • Parenting Seminar at Vance AFB Is your teen at risk?

  • Speaker at Vance AFB – Military Spouse Empowerment Event: Kevlar Couples: Bulletproof For A Happy Military Marriage”

  • Guest Host for Army Wife Talk Radio

  • Expert on Military Network Radio – Military teen suicide risk & prevention

  • Release “Warning Signs: Is Your Teen at Risk for Depression, Addiction and Suicide”

  • Guest on HFH Radio

  • Guest on Military Network Radio 

  • Guest on Parent Nation Radio 

  • Guest on the Jim Bohannon Show Veterans Day

  • Feature Article in Military Officer Magazine

  • US News & World Report interview for Veterans Day

  • Invited Guest of the USAA Influencers Social Exchange

  • Content provider for USAA community website

  • Release “Right Side Up: Find Your Way When Military Life Turns You Upside Down” via Elva Resa Publishing

  • Release of Stories Around The Table: Laughter, Wisdom & Strength in Military Life

  • NexGen Milspouse Interview for Right Side Up Release

  • Featured Article in Stars & Stripes Right Side Up Takes Effort

  • Panelist & Facilitator for MOAA Warrior Family Symposium 

  • Consultant for UC-Denver RAMP study

  • Keynote speaker for Pikes Peak Christian Military Spouse Appreciation Day

  • Honored as the Fort Carson Military Spouse of the Year

  • Guest/Consultant for SpouseLink Summit (Division of AAFMAA)

  • Feature Story in the Colorado Springs Gazette

  • Radio Guest on Semper Feisty Radio

  • Brand Ambassador to the military community for Verizon Wireless

  • Spouse Retreat Keynote Speaker & Trainer for the 3/75 Ranger Regiment:Fort Benning GA

  • Feature Columnist for Womens Edition Magazine COS

  • Voiceover for Radio Commercial created for TroopSwap in Colorado Springs CO.

  • Radio Guest Changing Direction w/Michele Rosenthal: , Military Kids: Ordinary Kids + Extraordinary Challenges on Rockstar Radio,  Army Wife Talk Radio, Semper Fiesty Radio, Heart Filled Holidays Radio and more.

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“The key for turning tragedy into triumph is creatively working together towards a common goal.”

— Geoff & Judy Davis