Hi, I’m Judy Davis
Motivational Speaker • Author • Midlife Truth-Teller and Sometimes I Paint
"Stop saying 'I'm fine' when you're not. Let's talk truth instead."
My Story Isn't Pretty, But It's Real
I see you. I see you juggling everyone else's needs while your own dreams collect dust. I see you saying "I'm fine" when you're anything but fine. And, it's time we change that conversation.
My journey began like so many others—perfecting the art of holding everything together while quietly falling apart inside. As a military spouse, I mastered the "I'm fine" response even when my world was crumbling. Sound familiar?
Then everything changed in an instant. My husband Geoff was severely injured in combat—above-knee amputation, traumatic brain injury, and injuries that forced us to confront a new reality where "I'm fine" wasn't just a lie, it was impossible.
That crisis became my wake-up call. While rebuilding our lives from the ground up, I discovered something powerful: midlife isn't about settling—it's about rising.
Through our journey of rebuilding, I found my calling: helping other women navigate their own times of crisis, transition, and transformation. I learned that life's most difficult challenges can become our greatest catalysts for growth—if we're willing to stop pretending everything is fine and start getting real about what we need.
What Makes Me Different
Forget the fluff and feel-good platitudes. I bring Midlife Candor—raw, honest conversations about the messy middle of life that nobody talks about. No toxic positivity. No "just think positive" garbage. Just honest conversation about navigating midlife transitions, rediscovering your identity, and finally—FINALLY—putting yourself first without apologizing for it.
Speaking & Training Experience
45+ Military Spouse events nationwide
Corporate keynotes and workshops
Universities including Texas Tech & University of Michigan
Organizations like USAA, Dove and San Antonio Chamber of Commerce
Emotional resilience and stress management training
Holistic wellness practices and creative self-expression workshops
Published Author & Mental Health Advocate
"Right Side Up: Find Your Way When Military Life Turns You Upside Down"
"Warning Signs: Is Your Teen at Risk for Depression, Addiction and Suicide"
Featured in multiple publications and media outlets
Mental health advocacy and suicide prevention work
Recognition & Impact
Dove Real Beauty Award recipient
Co-founder of DASIUM (depression, addiction, and suicide prevention for teens and young adults)
Fort Carson Military Spouse of the Year
Mental health mentor and resilience trainer
Thousands of lives impacted through speaking engagements and programs
My Midlife Candor Promise
Whether you're dealing with empty nest syndrome, career transitions, relationship changes, or simply feeling lost in the middle of your own life, I'll meet you exactly where you are with practical strategies and permission to prioritize your own happiness.
My approach combines:
Emotional resilience training that actually works in real life
Stress management techniques designed for overwhelmed women
Practical strategies you can implement today, not someday
Guilt-free permission to prioritize yourself
Truth-telling that cuts through the "I should be grateful" nonsense
My family motto guides everything I do: "Life happens, live creative." Real transformation happens when we stop merely surviving and start intentionally creating the life we desire.
Perfect for Organizations Seeking Authentic Impact
Looking for a speaker who won't just inspire but will actually equip your audience with tools they'll use? I specialize in:
Corporate events for midlife professional women
Military spouse conferences and family readiness groups
Women's retreats and empowerment events
Healthcare organizations serving women 40+
Community groups focused on personal development
My keynotes leave attendees with actionable strategies, not just warm feelings that fade by Tuesday.
Ready to Move Beyond "I'm Fine"?
For Midlife Women: Join the Midlife Candor community where we're rewriting the rules about what's possible after 40. Because you've earned the right to prioritize yourself without guilt.
For Event Planners: Let's create an experience that genuinely transforms your audience with practical tools and honest conversation about what midlife transformation really looks like.
The extraordinary life you deserve is waiting. Let's take that first step together.
Connect with me at info @DavisInspired.com • Book speaking engagements • Join the Midlife Candor movement
A snapshot of some of the places I have had the privilege to be featured:
Presenter for the Anxiety Commander - 3 Pillars of Mental Wellness For Real Anxiety Relief
Guest on the Wise Health For Women podcast
Guest on the Mighty Parenting Podcast (Depression, Addiction and Suicide a Story of Hope)
Guest on the Joyce Beuford Empowers Podcast (How to Handle Life’s Stressors)
Master of Ceremonies for Milspousefest Virtual “Dreams Become Reality - Mental Wellness” event
Keynote Speaker at San Antonio Chamber of Commerce Military Spouse Appreciation Day
Repeat Guest of Army Wife Talk Radio
Guest of the Daily Dabble Podcast
Keynote speaker for the Bradon Bayless Foundation Annual Fundraiser
Featured graduation speaker for the Combat Medic graduation ceremony
Keynote speaker for over 25 Milspousefest events
Recipient of the Dove Real Beauty Award
Keynote Speaker at 3rd Annual Dove Real Beauty “Women of the Military” Luncheon
Guest on the Bruce and Blanquita Show on NoBull Radio Listen
Keynote Speaker at University of Michigan. Delivered Warning Signs: Are You or A Friend At Risk? hosted by Delta Gamma at their Ethics & Values Event
Featured presenter at Oakland Schools for suicide prevention.
Featured Speaker for Military Spouse Wellness Summit: Invest in Yourself
Keynote Speaker at Camp Lejeune Wounded Warrior Family Programs
Featured presenter at USAA DigitalMilEx
Keynote Speaker at Texas Tech University Suicide Prevention Week Student Event “Are You or A Friend at Risk”
Keynote Speaker at Texas Tech University Suicide Prevention Week Faculty Seminar “Warning Signs of a Student at Risk”
Parenting Seminar at Vance AFB Is your teen at risk?
Speaker at Vance AFB – Military Spouse Empowerment Event: Kevlar Couples: Bulletproof For A Happy Military Marriage”
Guest Host for Army Wife Talk Radio
Expert on Military Network Radio – Military teen suicide risk & prevention
Release “Warning Signs: Is Your Teen at Risk for Depression, Addiction and Suicide”
Guest on HFH Radio
Guest on Military Network Radio
Guest on Parent Nation Radio
Guest on the Jim Bohannon Show Veterans Day
Feature Article in Military Officer Magazine
US News & World Report interview for Veterans Day
Invited Guest of the USAA Influencers Social Exchange
Content provider for USAA community website
Release “Right Side Up: Find Your Way When Military Life Turns You Upside Down” via Elva Resa Publishing
Release of Stories Around The Table: Laughter, Wisdom & Strength in Military Life
NexGen Milspouse Interview for Right Side Up Release
Featured Article in Stars & Stripes Right Side Up Takes Effort
Panelist & Facilitator for MOAA Warrior Family Symposium
Consultant for UC-Denver RAMP study
Keynote speaker for Pikes Peak Christian Military Spouse Appreciation Day
Honored as the Fort Carson Military Spouse of the Year
Guest/Consultant for SpouseLink Summit (Division of AAFMAA)
Feature Story in the Colorado Springs Gazette
Radio Guest on Semper Feisty Radio
Brand Ambassador to the military community for Verizon Wireless
Spouse Retreat Keynote Speaker & Trainer for the 3/75 Ranger Regiment:Fort Benning GA
Feature Columnist for Womens Edition Magazine COS
Voiceover for Radio Commercial created for TroopSwap in Colorado Springs CO.
Radio Guest Changing Direction w/Michele Rosenthal: , Military Kids: Ordinary Kids + Extraordinary Challenges on Rockstar Radio, Army Wife Talk Radio, Semper Fiesty Radio, Heart Filled Holidays Radio and more.
“The key for turning tragedy into triumph is creatively working together towards a common goal.”
— Geoff & Judy Davis